Just when many things in life needed some tweaking work, 6 officers were surrounding one particular bed in the hospital ward, silently celebrating.
Last week. “We have a baby in the ward.” Mind you, that patient is 72 years young. He is frail, he can’t feed himself, he can’t hear properly, he speaks a different Chinese dialect no staff in clinic able to communicate (thus we speak Malay with him), like a baby, he (has to) wear pampers. Oh, he’s our patient.
My boss is particularly concern about him. He checks on the ol’ man twice a day, if not 3 times. Today, there were 6 of us in the ward.
“Uncle, ada makan??”
“A..i..r… k…o….s…o…n….g….”
“Uncle, can you eat? Milo or milk? Porridge?” When I speak in Cantonese or Mandarin, I will get a blank stare. Not quite sure if it’s because uncle can’t hear well or because he doesn’t understand me.
Well, we all wanted him to take food. Feed himself, get nourishment.
Let’s try again. I saw a tin of oatmeal beside his bed. I am sure he is too weak and frail to look to the side and noticed a tin of food. I took the tin and gently held it in front of him.
“Uncle, can you eat this?”
He responded slowly “Kalau mau lui, saya tak mau…”
My colleague said “Tell him somebody gave it to him.”
And I did.
“Oh, I would like a cup of it then.” He casually said it as if ordering a cup of teh tarik in coffee shop.
There is a bun on the table too. My other colleague opened the package and placed it in his thinning hands, which with much effort, he held it.
“Eat la, eat la” “Uncle, makan!” multiple encouragement in multiple languages were expressed.
Uncle slowly broke the bread, and placed one piece inside his mouth, and chewed with his gum pads (for he has no teeth). He was eating for the first time in a very long time. While his jaw was masticating slowly, he turned his head like a lighthouse looking at the 6 weird officers, shamelessly staring at him and grinning encouragingly.
The ability to eat is a milestone itself.
For uncle, or at least to me, it is worth giving thanks for.